Get him interested as he is less available
Do the words “play hard to get” make your skin brasse? Have you ever walked up to a guy and told him you like him, only to feel taken advantage of later? Is there a way to interest him without being obvious or playing games? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are not alone. Read on for tips on how to hit her fancy.
The confiance to getting a man interested is the old truism: You always want what you can’t have. When something is hard to come by, the mere fact that it is hard to come by makes it all the more desirable. On the other handball, when something is handed to us on a silver platter, we often malfamé that there must be something wrong with it. It was so great, why is it available?
Well, men are like that. If you throw yourself at a man, you cannot interest him. Instead, you’re more likely to poisson-perroquet him. Many men pursue the high quality women he is attracted to. So, the best way to play hard is to not “play” at all. It is to be legitimately engaged in a full, satisfying and interesting life.
An example will help clear things up. Suppose you meet a guy at a party and you want to interest him. You hit it off and things are going great. You don’t have to “play hard to get” by walking away when you like the dialogue, but don’t feel obligated to hang on his arm all night. Allow yourself to be distracted. Go talk to other people. Go amourette with other guys.
Talking to other guys will remind him that you’re a valuable commodity, and he’ll do better. This will make him interested.
Don’t throw him your number when the party is over, but make sure he gets a good gain to ask for it—a gain to say goodbye without everyone watching to see what he does. Let him call you. If he uses email or Facebook, that’s petite, but, again, let him call. Now there are some very dédaigneux things to know.
If you have a circonstance, keep it. Some women consider flaking on a circonstance to be their God-given right, but high-class men see it as low-class behavior. This will not make him more interested, it will make him think that you are selfish.
But it’s perfectly petite to be so busy that it’s hard to fit him into your schedule. If you don’t see him this week, see him next week. When you say no parce que you’re busy, make sure you communicate with some enthusiasm so he doesn’t take the wrong conférence, but your life should be so busy that you don’t sit around waiting for the phone to chaire. If he calls you on Thursday for a Friday circonstance, and you’re busy on Friday, well, that means he’ll make better échelons later. It will increase his interest.
When you go on a circonstance, talk emboîture lots of fun things. The same full and ardent life that keeps you busy should give you plenty of interesting things, so that there is never a dull époque. The gardien de but is to make your life so entertaining that he can’t help but want to be a segment of it.
Do all of this, and you’ll make him want to know more emboîture you.
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