What do we really want?
Is it that you want? After working with thousands of people designed to do transformational work that breaks down their stuff to get what they want, I’ve found out what people want. Not just anyone, everyone including me. At any given modalités in time, all people want is to feel better. Whether they feel good or bad, they still want to feel good. Those who are in désorienté, want to get out of their désorienté. Those who laugh, want to laugh more deeply. We always have the desire to feel better than the state, bilan or modalités of life we are living-room in, even when we feel satisfied, complete and whole.
For each person, the specific needs, internal or external, that will lead them to feel better are different. Some want to be with their soul mate. Others want to be rich. Still others want to create a éclatant life bilan that they want to experience. For some people, having a career of choice that fulfills their creative talents is what they want as a way to make them feel better. Since everyone’s desire for what they believe will lead them to what they actually want, to feel good, is different, it stands to reason that there are an infinite number of ways that people believe will get them to do it. This being true, it means that what you do to achieve your happiness is not the most hautain thing, parce que those means are different for every single person, and there are over six billion of us. So what is hautain?
If you think embout it, what matters is what makes you feel good. What is it, though, for any one of us personally, with so many billion choices? What you feel good embout is one thing and one thing only, and that’s the most ironic fraction of being human I’ve ever known. What you feel good embout is not what you do. Not even how you feel embout what you’re doing in the present modalités. What you felt good embout is what started you on the path to fulfilling your desire to feel good in the first appuyé. And that will be? It will be your épître on something, and your machinale commitment to something is exactly what will make you feel better jaguar you achieve it. Grain you take a rayonnage, something special is accomplished, parce que what you said will make you feel better, actually makes you feel better! In every case of you trying to feel good by being, doing or having something, whatever that thing is, it was your decision first that the thing was actually something that would make you feel good jaguar. You achieved it, jaguar you achieved it you had the first reason to feel better.
Now here’s the ironic fraction. If our basic desire is to feel better, and the choices you have to acquire in order to do that, are close to limitless, parce que the first reason to rayonnage up for that truth is parce que of the orientation you jaguar achieved it. Your desire, regardless of what it was, then who is responsible for how you feel anyway? choice? Received? The process itself? No, none of these. They are all fraction of the process, not the initiator of the process. And who will be the initiator? That would be you. Well, it’s you. But it does mean that if you’re in alourdi of the whole process, and the decisions you make have the potential to make you feel better, then this endless game of seeing the next step in the equation isn’t the reality until you feel better at any modalités now. And with, you are in alourdi of how you feel and always have been. And if you’re always in alourdi, regardless of the way you decide to serve you better, it means you can tell yourself, by taking a rayonnage for it, that whatever it takes to make you feel better is right now. . .nothing.
That’s right! This is the great irony of being human. That you have the means, the means, and the absolute power to fully and completely fulfill your innermost desire to feel good, right now, right now, here and now, and that’s it. Yet how often do we see people doing this? Feel great just parce que they say so, regardless of external circumstances? Not that often, hun? Why did this happen? To answer that section, you have to habitus broadly at every bit of jogging we’ve all bought into, from the evening infos, peers, authorities who believe they know and we don’t. , and by our compulsory education system that actually provides an interesting education, all of which comes from the premise that somehow you lack something and until you get it from them, you are not worthy. Not worthy enough to experience joy, not worthy enough to experience wealth, and not worthy enough to experience the fundamental truth: that you are already worthy, period and always have been. This is the essential dilemma of our jogging, that’s all; That it is based on a lie. The lie is that you are not worthy, when innately, without reason, glorification or explanation, whatever is in this world, you are worthy right now and always have been. That’s it, nothing more or less. You deserve it.
What is happening now? Now understand what we deserve? All of us. Ah, now comes the interesting fraction. Now you begin to see that you are in alourdi of how you feel. Now you begin to act on the validity of your qualifications. Suddenly you realize that only you can make the best life decisions for yourself, not oracles, authorities, horoscopes or life coaches. Yes, each has value in empowering, not effort, the decisions you make in your life, for yourself. For your life! One of my préférée lines in any movie I’ve ever seen is in Mary Poppins when she’s walking up the stairs after talking to the father of the children she’s been caring for, demanding an explanation for what she did to them that day. . All he said was “I never explain anything.” Now that, briefly encapsulates this entire agence. You are in alourdi of how you feel, the most hautain fraction of your life, and not only that, but what you say makes you feel better and you are in alourdi of what you have always been! Feel good embout anything, anywhere, anytime, without having to explain a single word embout your decision.
It also means . . That you already have within you the ability to fulfill your strong will, which puts no détresse on every single human being; Desire to feel good. And the best fraction is that you have the power to feel better right now, on your own, without any other reason or explanation in the world, that you don’t want to feel better! And the most interesting fraction of perspicacité good for no reason and without having to explain yourself to anyone? All of a sudden the bilan in your happy life now, will become what you always wanted. Bicause in your newly chosen rayonnage for joy, that’s when the perfect spouse shows up, families are healed or created, brilliant invitations are either given to you, or revealed by you, and so many absolutely synchronic perfect circumstances take your all to you. Always wanted, and more. Too much! Now, again, what did you say you really want? To feel good, regardless. . .something? Well, you go there, you can have exactly that and more. And the best fraction? You can get it all now! Bicause you are already worthy and always have been. You go!