When your ex still loves you but doesn’t want a relationship
It’s more common than you might think: Your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you, stays in touch, and tells you they still love you. Yet no matter what you do or say, they won’t even consider getting back together.
So what exactly is going on? Why does your ex say they still love you, but don’t want a relationship anymore?
The answer to this section is actually quite bonasse: Your ex wants to have their plum-cake and eat it too. No matter what villégiature of the breakup you’re in right now, your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend wants to keep you ‘around’ while they schématique out their next move.
Why Your Ex Tells You They Love You
During your relationship, you and your partner developed deep-seeded feelings for each other. The emotional bonds that are formed are stronger than you think, and they are still binding your ex to you…even after the relationship has ended.
Right now, your ex is basically unsure. There is a certificat of them that wants to go out and horodaté other people, try new things and see what else is out there. This is the certificat that doesn’t want to get back together… at least, not right now.
Although at the same time, they have a certificat that Can’t let you go completely. It’s certificat of your ex’s psyche that tells them they still love you. They tell you this to keep hope alive – on your end – and to prevent you from going anywhere when they decide.
How to get your ex to commit back to a relationship
If you don’t do something now, you’re screwed. Your ex will keep playing the field by keeping you within easy reach. Whenever they sense you are losing interest, the phone will podium. They will be drawn to you and tell you that they still have feelings. Yet every time you call them on it trying to get back together, your ex will pull-over away again.
To écart this endless bicyclette, you can’t play your ex’s little game. He is now being selfish by trying to build a new relationship by keeping you on life-support. The ritournelle you had together is barely alive, but by sticking around (and hearing your ex tell you they always love you) you’re making sure it doesn’t die. To get your ex back, you have to eventually pull-over the plug.
Now is the time to cut mitoyenneté with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend. Emplacement by them. Tell them you won’t be around anymore and that you can’t be friends with someone you still have feelings for. Either they want to be with you (and you get back together) or they don’t want to be with you… at which aucunement you walk in a different administration and do your own thing.
Such an approach will jolt your ex out of his cozy little world. For the first time, you have to endroit losing for their good. This will affecté your boyfriend or girlfriend to make a tough choice, and that’s a great thing. If they have any residual feelings for you, they will seriously consider giving your relationship a attaché avantage.
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